Dear Happy Asses, I find it very easy to notice when someone else is not displaying emotional intelligence. It is crystal clear. Almost obvious. Sometimes even glaring. But here is the uncomfortable truth: When I notice it quickly, maybe that is my cue. Maybe that is my nudge to check my own emotional intelligence. Years … Continue reading It’s not You, It’s me…. NO REALLY
Month: February 2026
Don’t get bored with the basics!!
Dear Happy Asses, It is no secret that I love golf, and I am not really that good at it yet. I crack up when people say to me, “You must be good by now.” Insert lots of groans and laughter as my response. I many times think, why in the world do I love … Continue reading Don’t get bored with the basics!!
The Bluest of Eyes and the Kindest Heart
Dear Happy Asses, He had the bluest of eyes and the kindest heart. He was brilliant, thoughtful, and overly generous — and he died of a terrible disease at age 63. My grandfather, Pete, had the most beautiful red wavy hair, porcelain-perfect skin, a fit body, and a winning personality — and he died of … Continue reading The Bluest of Eyes and the Kindest Heart
Tender Lessons from a Chaotic Childhood
Dear Happy Asses, As an adult, believe it or not — even though I can be playful, energetic, and sometimes “a lot” — I really don’t like to be embarrassed. I have come to realize that this isn’t just a personality quirk; it has roots in my childhood. Growing up in a completely unpredictable environment … Continue reading Tender Lessons from a Chaotic Childhood